This is not a good stand to take. You see, someone that has the above attributes (decency, good character, etc.) combined with hard work will be comfortable or rich. It is only a matter of time.
You cannot tolerate those you consider inferior to you in status
Another symptom of the love of money is if you cannot tolerate domestic staff, waitstaff in restaurants and any other person you consider inferior to you because they do not have any or much financial muscle. Sometimes you see a lady who is very nice to her boyfriend but unpleasant to waitstaff in a restaurant. Anyone dating such a lady should run for his dear life as that lady has just shown a critical aspect of her character and values.