Greg Behrendt

But this is what’s hard about this one. It’s very easy to feel stupid about wanting to get married, particularly when you’re with someone who doesn’t. I mean, you two are so happy together—why rock the boat? It’s just like you’re married, so what’s the big deal? What do you care what your family thinks—are they living with you? Just because all your friends are getting married, does that mean you have to? Jeez, it sounds like you don’t care who you marry. You just want to be married.

A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence to do it in person.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.